Sunday 19 July 2009

The Quarter-Life Crisis..Episode One

I was chatting to my friend in Ghana today, she informed me she is having a "Quarter-Life Crisis." Intrigued and slightly amused I asked her what that was and she sent me a link to a Wikipedia page.... Apparently the quarter-life crisis happens in your twenties to the early thirties.

Characteristics of quarter-life crisis may include:


1. Feeling "not good enough" because one can't find a job that is at one's academic/intellectual level
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2. Frustration with relationships, the working world, and finding a suitable job or career
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3. Confusion of identity.

4. Insecurity regarding the near future
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5. Insecurity concerning long-term plans, life goals.

6. Insecurity regarding present accomplishments
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7. Re-evaluation of clo
se interpersonal relationships.
8. Disappointment with one's job
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9. Nostalgia for university life.

10. Tendency to hold stronger opinions
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11. Boredom with social interactions.
12. Loss of closeness to high school and University friends.

13. Financially-rooted stress (overwhelming college loans)
14. Loneliness.
15. Desire to have children.
16. A sense that everyone is, somehow, doing better than you.
17. Frustration with societal ills.


My friend quickly diagnosed that I had recently been through my "Quarter-Life Crisis" hence, the life changing decisions I have made about my life (I'm going traveling, then leaving nursing and going back to university to study Art) Hmm, I think she could be right!.....It must be true if its on Wikipedia, Right??.....

1 comment:

  1. In the midst of one of these myself! Thanks for the comment on my blog- so glad to find someone who isn't my mom reading it haha.

    Amy
    http://allliesandjest.blogspot.com

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